I fell over on Wednesday, clambering down a shallow bank in pursuit of my daughter who was hovering close to the river’s edge. Unfortunately for me the bank was wet where my river-bound dog had been dripping everywhere and the next thing I knew I was on the ground and my wrist and hand were in a shape and position I hope sincerely I never see again (although I do have a lovely x-ray photo for posterity, I probably won’t be pinning that one to the fridge!).
Fast forward through a pretty traumatic wait in the mud, bumpy ambulance ride and horribly conscious realignment at hospital and I’m home, plaster casted to the elbow and in a sling. Over night I’ve completely lost the use of my right arm. As someone who blogs regularly about raising a daughter without a right hand the irony hasn’t been entirely lost on me.
I can’t so much as lift Hero up or change a nappy, which I’m finding an incredibly difficult transition to make, despite knowing it’s temporary. Cue a huge amount of people offering and willingly giving a vast amount of time, support and help. That’s the weird thing about an injury like this, you’re the one in pain and grumpy, but it’s everyone else around who is really impacted. And thank goodness for those people and that help – I can’t thank them enough.
Luckily for me I’ve spent the last two years of my life watching videos on how people get stuff done with one hand. So when my sling unravelled itself this morning (ouch!) I initially had a panic. I was home alone, should I wander down to my neighbour’s house in my PJs and with half a dressing gown on? A pathetic sight to start anyone’s day! Then I spotted one of Hero’s hair elastics on the windowsill and I thought back to the number of awesome “how I do my hair with one hand videos” I’ve seen recently. Some fumbling, one flying elastic and a little teamwork between left hand and teeth later and we’re back in business and feeling rather smug.
Hero and I are going to have some adjustments to make over the next six weeks. Like how do two left –handers hold hands comfortably? I think there’ll be a bit of may pole dancing going on! At least she can rest easily that she won’t have to undergo the daily torture of having her hair put into a ponytail for a few weeks and those snazzy plate dividers might find themselves coming in useful for more then just one of us!